Thursday, September 4, 2008
The Hardest Thing In Marriage
You married people ... if you were to tell a couple planning to get married what the hardest thing is in marriage would be, what would you tell them it is? I am just thinking ... it seems that for me the hardest part is "making a major decision that affects the family". I mean when I was single I make a decision just by myself, and even if the decision is risky, I can only blame myself for whatever outcome happens if I decide to take that risky decision. But now I always have to consult with my husband. We have to be in agreement on decision that affects our family. And when you are married to someone that has a totally opposite personality, and somewhat different values with what you have, it's not easy making a decision together. I'm just sayin'.....
Well, it's Friday today, and so I'll take it easy and join everyone at Island Life for an Aloha Friday. Looking forward to what the participants there are going to say :)