Showing posts with label Dyslexia / Learning Differences. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dyslexia / Learning Differences. Show all posts

Friday, May 21, 2010

And These Are Some of the Reasons I Why Took A Two Weeks Off


I can't believe it's Friday already! It seems just like yesterday when it was Monday morning and I e-mailed my boss and co-workers to tell them I am taking a "two weeks personal emergency week off" starting that day. It's actually a "mother instinct" sort of thing. I feel guilty about the very short notice (actually, no advance notice at all) but I knew I needed to take this break. And after a week of it, I knew I made the right decision.

My husband was quite worried with how irresponsibly I handled that. I am not usually that irresponsible. But I have a "Twice Exceptional" child and the last two weeks of school is very critical, I had to do it. I would go back to work as soon as school is over this year. In the meantime, it's nice to see one of his science projects coming together. Here is close up shot:

OK, got more reasons but I need to unplug. Thanks for reading :) Aloha!

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Back To My Blogging Roots

It's 4:25 AM. I am not supposed to be blogging. I am right now taking 2 weeks off from all my social media gigs to focus on helping my son get through the last 2 weeks of school without a glitch. But Liza's Eyview is a "safe place" and a "venting place" for me so here I am.

As many of you who are friends of Liza's Eyeview know, my son is uniquely gifted. He is what they call "gifted dyslexic" or "twice exceptional". He has a high IQ, yet it does not transfer into his performance in school because of his dyslexia, unless he is given various accommodations. He needs close monitoring to be able to finish is school work without him getting frustrated and giving up. He also needs help in getting focused. I have spent many many hours on the internet and reading books researching how to best help him succeed in school and in life because it's really hard being a gifted dyslexic. The good news is there are tons of information and resources out there that helps a parents help their gifted dyslexic child. The bad news is it requires a lot of time and energy and attention - and most parents nowadays do not have the luxury of "lots of time".... at least not I.

Back to my blogging roots. Yes, I came back here to my original blog to vent, to reflect, to contemplate, to seek support. In this blog I am at home. This is my online journal where I can pour out my emotions without any concerns ... here I can ramble and not worry about what advertisers would say or how it would affect my overall niche.

Did I already tell you I am taking a 2 week off my social media gigs? Did I also tell you that I took an emergency 2 week off from my current day job which made my husband very worried. He was worried of how my bosses would react because that's a very irresponsible thing to do - just e-mail that day (yesterday) to tell them I am taking a 2 weeks off, and it starts right now. Ahhh, that is so unlike me. And yet I had to do that. I had to do that after I logged in into my son's "powerschool" (the website where we check their grades and performance) and saw that his grades are in the danger zone. I must intervene. I must give him an undivided attention. Not that I would do the work for him, but I must be there when he does his work to keep him focused. To keep me focused. This is what I am called to do. To make my family life a priority....

There is such too much to sort out in my life right now. Aside from the clutter in my house, there are also clutter in my mind. There are complicated decisions to make. Decisions that cannot be decided upon just by what I believe is my calling - but it had to be in line with what my husband think is best for the family. Afterall, he is the head of our family.

Ahhh... its feel so good to ramble here. That's how I started blogging. And that's what meant about blogging roots....

Have I already told you that love being a mom? How about the fact that I also love being a wife, a daughter, a sister and a friend? Why is life nowadays seems so complicated? We have all these gadgets to save time and yet the more time we save on these gadgets, the more stressful it seems.

Life is meant to be simple, and yet we make it hard.

Yesterday I was at Borders and I saw this Yoga DVD for $7.99. I bought it. I will do yoga for 30 minutes a day to get rid of the stiffness in my body caused by all these stress. I need to do this while I am on my "emergency mental health and undivided attention to help G mission" vacation.

Ahhh... it's 10 minutes till 5AM. I better stop blogging and get back on checking all of the homework G accomplished last night. He worked hard last night. He even missed the Church Youth Group (which he absolutely loves attending), to focus on school project.

May this day be another productive one. Lord, help us.

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Works For Me: Support Groups

The other night we had one of those "Bad Night" at home, when from being a good afternoon, something happened and that something changed the dynamics of the night.

I almost blogged about it that night, but I knew I should not (and I'm glad I didn't). You see, had I posted that situation right away, I would have opened up "our family" to a lot of misunderstanding and misconception. In order to lessen those "misunderstanding, misconception or wrong perception", I would have to explain and give you (my dear reader and friends) the background of if all. But I was upset at that time, and I really didn't have the energy to type up a background story to vent. I needed to vent, I needed support, at that very moment.


And so I posted at Schwablearning Parent To Parent Message Board. I have been a member of that board for more than 3 years and so I have already developed "cyber friendships" there. It's a board for parents raising kids with Learning Disabilities, and so many of the parents there can truly understand, right away without me having to give a background, and without me having to explain in detail what the situation is. Many parents there can say "been there, done that, here's what you can do".

The point of this post is this: support groups are very important in our lives. VERY IMPORTANT. In whatever stage of life were in, we need a group of friends who can relate. Belongingness, closeness (with each other) and openness (allowing your self to be vulnerable) do not happen overnight, but you've got to start somewhere. It does not have to be a "cyber group". It could be a group at church, at school, at work, a formal AA group, a Mom's Playgroup, a marriage group, an exercise group, etc... The point in, we must invest time and effort to "belong" to a good support group.

Ahhh... there are so many things I want to share about the importance of a support groups. I don't think I can squeeze all my thoughts in this one post, so I'll stop for now and will do a part 2 sometime - sooner or later, most likely later :).

For more Works For Me Wednesday posts, visit the WFMW Hub at Rocks In My Dryer.

Saturday, August 4, 2007

Love Hopes All Things


It's 2:00 in the morning. I was lying in bed tossing and turning. My heart was anxious and my head was spinning. I was worried about our son. He’s just 5 and he’s already having problems at school.

It’s almost 3:00 AM. I still could not sleep. Whispering, I prayed “God, what future does my son hold? Show us how we can help him” I did not hear an audible answer. But in the stillness of the night I knew the Lord had spoken and said “For I know the plans I have for G…plans of good and not of evil…to give him a future and a hope” (Jeremiah 29:11). With these comforting words, I went to sleep.

This happened a year ago…and from that, I’ve learned to appreciate this aspect of love that I’ve not focused on before: hope!

More than anyone, God knows the depth of my love for G. And on that night, God reminded me that He loves G so much more than I possibly can! After that prayer, God has been showing us each day his wonderful plan. Hope unfolds every step that leads to G’s bright future. No longer am I anxious. Instead, love has taken away my fears. Yes, there are times when I still worry, but I have learned to turn my worries into prayers and the result is a tremendous hope!

This is the power of love. It is fueled and sustained not by an ever-changing emotional or physical state, but by deep beliefs and hopes that are given by God to those who trust Him. Real love has a capacity to view life – and live with it – with an optimism that is refreshing because of “Christ in you, the hope of glory” (Col:27)

Real love can hope because of what God can do in a person’s life. Love…hopes all things.

(from my Journal, written 6/14/2004)

Update: Sometime after writing the above journal entry in 2004, we discovered that G has dyslexia. With proper remediation, he gained his confidence. He is now in 4th grade and doing well in school. He has to work harder than the rest of the class but knowing that "he's not dumb" but just "learn differently" made a huge difference in his school life :)

Saturday, July 7, 2007

Dyslexic Driver and Dyslexic Husband


We had a party today at our house for G. It's basically to get together with everyone from G's taekwondo dojang. One family was late. The dad politely explained that he followed my hubby's direction (to our house) written in the invitation. He was supposed to go to P highway and turn left...but there really was no left turn at that particular road. So he went to the next intersection and turn left there. Long story short, they were lost. The real story? Hubby made a mistake on the direction he printed on the invitation. It's supposed to be "turn right" on K street. Hubby was quite embarassed. Then he recovered and explained that he's dyslexic.

Yep, hubby is dyslexic. But you know what? I love him. I think I'll keep him :)
Funny Dyslexic T-shirts are available at Cafe Press. That's where I got the shirt photos above.

For reliable information on Dyslexia, visit Schwablearning website .

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Works For Me Wednesday: Rick Lavoie Videos - Helping Kids Who Are Struggling in School and Social Settings

If you have a child who at one point is struggling in school...I recommend you check out one or all of these videos (or DVD) by Rick Lavoie. The descriptions of each DVD or videos can be read HERE. Read more about these on Rick Lavoie's website. Each child is unique and special and they should not struggle in school. I guarantee you, these videos work! It worked with US :). It will inform you and empower you to be a great advocate for your child. Check them out:







For more Works for Me Wednesdays, visit Rocks In My Dryer.

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

8 Wishes

I have a favor to ask of you. Would you please visit this 8 Wishes Blog of Paul Sanchez, and support him in his endeavor? He is doing his part in Dyslexia Awareness campaign and your support will be very much appreciated. Can I count on you? Even just a comment on his blog will tremendously help!

http://8wishes.blogspot.com/

Thanks!

You go Paul!

Monday, January 22, 2007

Overcoming Dyslexia (WFMW)


If there's one book that truly helped me help my dyslexic child, it would be Overcoming Dyslexia by Sally Shaywitz.

About 3 years ago, I was in the library frantically researching about learning disabilities because my son is having so much trouble in school. I heard about a particular book and so I asked the librarian if they have it.

"Sorry Mrs. P, that book is checked out. But I have one new book about Dyslexia that you night find helpful" said the librarian.

I was disappointed that the book I wanted to borrow was already checked out. I reluctantly agreed to borrow Overcoming Dyslexia instead. Little did I know that that book would be a "life saver" for G.

It is there where I first learned of Orton-Gillingham method, it's that book that opened my eyes to the symptoms of dyslexia that my child has. This book not only provided me with the information and education I needed, it also empowered me to be the best advocate for my son. G is now reading very well and is doing well in school. Had it not been for this book, I wonder if I had known whAt to do to help G.

There are so many other different books I have read on the topic of Dyslexia since then, but this one has been the most informative so far. It's not perfect, it's not complete, but it's a great start.

FOR MORE IMPORTANT HELPFUL INFO ON DYSLEXIA DIAGNOSIS, CLICK HERE

And since this book worked for me, I decided to put this in the "Works For Me Wednesday" carnival. For more WFMW blogs, visit "Rocks In My Dryer".

Sunday, December 17, 2006

Speaking of Dyslexia

Children suffering from dyslexia often diagnosed with other maladies

Imagine learning your alphabet but not being able to make sense of those letters as they combine to make words. Imagine being able to read the words but not able to comprehend the meaning of the sentences. Imagine trying harder yet falling further behind in school each year.

One out of 10 students doesn’t have to imagine. They live this frustration every day. An estimated 10 percent of all students have learning disabilities, most of these affect language processing. October is National Dyslexia Awareness Month so it’s an appropriate time to raise understanding about this disorder.

What is dyslexia? A simple definition is that dyslexia is an inherited condition that makes it extremely difficult to read, write and spell in your own language despite average or high intelligence and despite exposure to teaching methods that work for almost anyone else.

A research-based definition by the National Institute of Child Health and Human development is that dyslexia is a specific learning disability that is neurological in origin. It is characterized by difficulties with accurate and/or fluent word recognition and by poor spelling and decoding abilities.

These difficulties typically result from a deficit in phonological component language that is often unexpected in relation to other cognitive abilities and the provision of effective classroom instruction. Studies show that individuals with dyslexia process information in a different area of the brain than do nondyslexics.
Although dyslexia may be the most common specific learning disability, it is not formally identified in schools. Many parents and professionals may be more aware of the attention deficit disorder checklists than one for dyslexia. Many kids are labeled with ADD when, in fact, they are dyslexics.

Parents need to be alert to the possibility of dyslexia so they can help their kids get proper assessment, accommodations and remediation they need. Some common signs and symptoms of dyslexia may include reading that is slow and effortful, especially when reading out loud. There is a tendency to make wild guesses with new words, skipping over small words – like a, an, the – while mixing up orders of letters.
There is a common misconception that dyslexic people see letters and words backwards but, according to Dr. Sally Shaywitz, a professor of pediatrics at Yale University School of medicine, that is not the case. There may be some reversals in writing but no more than the other kids. Perceptual skills of what the child does with a word on a page is the problem – making the transition from print to language.

Children with unrecognized dyslexia are mislabeled as inattentive, lazy, careless or slow, but that can be far from the truth. There is a very long list of people who have overcome dyslexia and became successful. Dyslexics are over-represented in creative and inventive fields like arts and architecture or computers and engineering. Albert Einstein, Thomas Edison and Leonardo Da Vinci all exhibited signs and symptoms of dyslexia. Famous and successful people with dyslexia include Charles Schwab, Jack Horner, Winston Churchill, Nelson Rockefeller, and the list goes on.

However, not all people with dyslexia go on to greatness. It is estimated that 30 to 50 percent of adjudicated juveniles and adults have been found to have learning disabilities compared with 5 to 10 percent prevalence in the general population.
Learning disabilities increase a child’s risk of delinquency by a staggering 220 percent. Dyslexia is a form a learning disability and our kids who suffer from it must be given proper attention and help.

Early identification and remediation is a crucial key in overcoming dyslexia.
Parents and teachers have a crucial role in identification by recognizing the child’s patterns of difficulties as it relates to dyslexia symptoms. The earlier a child is given the proper help, the easier it is for the child to overcome difficulties in school, and succeed in life.

For more information on dyslexia and other learning disabilities, visit the Web sites Schwablearning and LDOnline.

Sunday, December 10, 2006

Love Hopes All Things

The essay below was written by me about 4 years ago and was published in our church's devotional:

Love Hopes All Things

It was 2 o’clock in the morning. I was on bed tossing and turning. My heart was anxious and my head was spinning. I was worried about our son. He’s just 5 and he’s already having problems at school.

It’s almost 3 o’clock. I still could not sleep. Whispering, I prayed “God, what future does my son hold? Show us how we can help him” I did not hear an audible answer. But in the stillness of the night I knew the Lord had spoken and said “For I know the plans I have for Gardner…plans of good and not of evil…to give him a future and a hope” (Jeremiah 29:11). With these comforting words, I went to sleep.

The scene above happened several years ago…and I from that, I’ve learned to appreciate this aspect of love that I’ve not focused on before: hope!

More than anyone, God knows the depth of my love for my son Gardner. And on that night, God reminded me that He loves Gardner so much more than I possibly can! After that prayer, God has been showing us each day his wonderful plan. Hope unfolds every step that leads to Gardner’s bright future. No longer am I anxious. Instead, love has taken away my fears. Yes, there are times when I still worry, but I have learned to turn my worries into prayers and the result is a tremendous hope!

This is the power of love. It is fueled and sustained not by an ever-changing emotional or physical state, but by deep beliefs and hopes that are given by God to those who trust Him. Real love has a capacity to view life – and live with it – with an optimism that is refreshing because of “Christ in you, the hope of glory” (Col:27)

Real love can hope because of what God can do in a person’s life. Love…hopes all things.

Saturday, November 25, 2006

Schwabbieland

Schwabbieland is a place somehere between Italy and Holland. It's actually a cyberland where parents of kids with learning differences and challenges "hang out"....

What do I mean by "somewhere between Italy and Holland"? Ahhhh... If you asked that question, that means you have not heard of the poem "Welcome to Holland". And that's what I'm trying to point out here. At Schwabbieland, we talk about issues and stuff that many of the "non-LD affected families" are clueless about....

Yes, I'm a Schwabbie. I hang out in Schwabbieland. If you have a child with Dyslexia, ADHD, or other learning differences and challenges, I invite you to hang out with us. It's the best place to be. Go to: Schwablearning Parent to Parent Message Board